What a woman shows, but a man see's

Ladies a man can se the things you do, even when you can’t. Even when you yourself can’t see the vibe you’re putting off, we can. And often times we make the mistake of assuming that it’s the message you are trying to send when that may not be the case at all. I watched the TV program the other day where there was a panel of men were on stage and women were standing up one by one and asking them to explain the way men think or answer certain question for them but from a man’s point of view. And one woman stood up and said that she believes that men are scared of her because she is a successful women… and right about the time that I laughed the man on TV laughed also. He said that if she doesn’t have a “rap sheet” then he or no man is scared of her. And that is so true. Her way of thinking is a bit prideful I feel. I feel that women that think this way are thinking a little too highly of themselves. And you best believe that most men share this opinion. Another thing women do that men hate is when a woman acts like she doesn’t need him or any man for that matter. Like we men are a part of there life that they can take or leave just like that. Most women bring that attitude into the relationship also whether they want to or not its some kind of defense mood they have to not get hurt like not talking about there man to other people or portraying to everyone that they’re crazy happy and completely caught up in him because what if something goes wrong or he leaves then she will be made to look like a fool. But when a woman acts like she doesn’t need a man, like he is just an add-on to her life like a purse and shoes he doesn’t see that as her being strong and independent, he see’s it as her not being vulnerable or “all in” that relationship and “if she is not “all in” or vulnerable, then why should I be” the man says. Women can usually dictate the affection she wants from a man even the amount both good and bad by her “honest” showing of her feelings